Can a boy and a girl remain as best friends forever?

you may have different answers for this question. Those answers surely depend on the experience that we have in our lives, I mean real lives.  But if we can analyze little by little the friendship between a girl and boy, at least, we may close to a fair answer for this s question.

Lets we think about a good friendship, between a two boys or a two girls, for a moment.  They are best friends because, simply they “like” each others. They like each others, it’s because they may have almost same feelings about things; they may have almost same desires about things, or they may help each other very much, they may have same interesting about things….so on.  So that’s why they like each other.  

OK...Now let’s we think about good friendship between a girl and a boy.  They are also best friends; it’s because same as above reasons, very simply.

 

So my questions are bellows. If this girl and boy are very good friends,

1. Can this girl and boy best friends, spend a night in a same room on a same bed together?
2. If this girl has legs pain after very hard day, can this boy massage her legs?

I asked above those silly questions, It’s because…

If these best friends were two boys or two girls, they can do this easily. But, boy and girl best friends cannot do this very simply. So… if that boy cannot massage his best girl friends legs, on a single bed, in a room, still are they able to call them as best friends?

However, honestly, if you still can manage this situation in the friend zone, it means, at least one person is killing his or her desires for sake of friendship. It doesn’t mean you don’t have any love or passion, romantic feeling about her or him. But you are overcoming the true feelings.

Further, if a girl and a boy best friends are keeping friendship better, but still one person wants more than a friendship, obliviously. But scare to break the friend zone and say “I love you”. Coz’ Consequence doing so may not healthy. So he or she stops the true feelings for sake of “Best Friendship”.

Sometimes though you love your best friend, you don’t want to, let her know that, your feelings, coz’ it may end of the friendship too. You scare to lose her, if she refuses you. So you are covering your true feelings of love and passion with an agony, so… And thinks, it’s better to have at least friendship rather than loosing whole thing.