It’s true technology will be connected
people and it will make easy for things. But the same time, it may be
disconnected you from your most loved one too. In simply Smart phones can have
an negative effects for close relationships.
When
you
have a Smartphone or Tab with you, you always connect to outside world
and apparently
you don’t have any private time for your own things. Specially, when you
are
with your partner, if that phone ring or gets an alert, definitely, your
mind
and body detract from your partner for a while. Sometime this happen
when you
are discussing a critical event of your lives. Further, I experienced
some couples, when they are flirting, one is using smartphone and play
games or chat
with other friends too. So the point that I want to make here is, that
smart phones, tablets can distract your attention from
the present moment, and its not good for healthy relationship at all.
Further researches
of the University of Essex shows, people who engaged in a private
discussion,
when a smart phone near by, they are presenting lower relationship
qualities
and lower attention or concern, for their partners.
What is the other main reason which
effect to a relationship from a smartphone? We know that we all can connect to
social medias through the mobiles phones. It means we always touch with our
friends. Sometime there are may be Ex-Partners among this friends, Co-workers, or
some special friends. when you make close contacts each and every day with them,
may easily lead your mind to them rather
than your partner for sure. At least for part time special relationships. Actually
this happens without knowing to you. This will worse, when you get a bad situation
with your loved one. Coz’ rather than you try to sort the problem with your
partner, you may criticize your partner with them. So it will lead to another
problem.
So all the above reasons may lead to,
unhealthy relationship with your partner, upon misusing your smart phone or
Tab.
So actually this not means, you must
put your smart phone to the ditch, specially when you need it for your day
today works. So here are some tips to use technology wisely, and to make your relationship better.
Just set it aside. When
you
in a dating, it’s better to switch off your phone, or you can put it in
to
your bag, or a pocket with silent mode. Think that, world will not end,
if you
cant check your e-mails or social media updates for two or three hours.
And keep
them shutting down during the night time. It will make your mind relax
too, rather than hearing any rings or alerts sounds when you are making
love with your
partner.
Use social media wisely. Try
not to express your private thoughts, and everything on social medias. I know that, there are lots of
people, giving impressions to other that they lonely, still they have a good
partner. So it will definitely attract others attention to you, specially if you
are a girl. Never keep close connection with your ex, on social medias. But,
if you really need to connect with your partner on line always, with the
privacy and without disturbing from others, use twocup.com
or appbetween.com. those programs will
allow you to have more privacy with your photos and stories away from the
prying eyes from the others.
Make a sexy connection. You could use
the Smartphone technology for add some spice to foreplay. As an example, you
can send a sexy voice massage or you can say some sexy, fantasy story that you
want to share or do with your partner for next evening or on next holiday.
Keep remember that smart phones and
other technology gadgets may give real negative impacts for your relationship. But
using them wisely you can give support to your relationship and you can start
to feel more connected to your partner than ever.
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